What should I know before I buy my wedding dress on Nearly Newlywed?

Never Transact Outside of NN

To protect our buyers and sellers, we strongly recommend keeping all communication within our integrated chat system where you can securely send and receive photos, videos, and even have video calls. We are always adding features and constantly monitoring messages for suspicious activity.

If someone asks to communicate outside of our marketplace, it’s often an attempt to bypass the safety measures we have in place.

  • You will never need to share your personal phone number, address, or email.
  • Payments are handled directly through our marketplace, ensuring a safe and happy transaction for everyone.

Any concerns? Contact our support team directly!

Inspect the Listing Thoroughly & Ask Questions


Use our secure messaging system to clarify any details with the seller before committing to a purchase.

Review the photos, measurements, alterations done, and description and message the seller to confirm:

  1. Condition

    Any stains, missing beading, or damage like tears or pulls?

  2. Color

    If they only have model pictures, you'll want to confirm the color is what you are expecting.

  3. Alterations

    Was the dress shortened? Was it taken in or let out? Even if it is new, confirm it was not altered.

  4. Seller height WITH shoes

    Ask the seller to confirm her height in the dress, including the heel height that she wore.

Know Your Measurements

Have your bust, waist, hips, and length measured accurately to compare them with the dress's sizing. Wedding dress sizing varies greatly from street size and even between designers and styles.

Plan for Alterations: It’s rare for a dress to fit perfectly off the rack or from the previous brides' alterations. Budget for tailoring to get the perfect fit.

New vs Sample vs Pre-Loved

New Wedding Dress

Ordered in the bride's desired size but never worn to an event; may have had alterations or been tried on. Ask if it’s 100% unaltered and new.

Sample Wedding Dress

Floor model used for try-ons in bridal salons; sold at reduced prices when replaced by new samples. Likely to have imperfections—request current photos to verify condition.

Used/PreOwned Wedding Dress

Worn for an event or picture session; may have alterations and may or may not have been cleaned. Ask for current photos to confirm the condition, especially if preserved in a sealed box.

Review Our Return Policy & Buyer Protection

Confirm whether the dress is eligible for return, not all sellers accept returns and international sales are final. Some listings are final sale.

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